Father's Day is just around the corner. Last night my dear, sweet, almost-like-a-daughter, friend Amanda posted a tribute to her father who passed away a couple of years ago from cancer. It touched me so deeply, it was an hour before I was emotionally stable again. I was reminded of how blessed I am to still have my own father on this earth with me and it inspired me to write my own tribute while he can hear it with this world's ears. So, taking my cues from Amanda, this is for you Daddy...
It's silly what specific things you remember from your childhood. I remember the time a snake was in the mud puddle between the house and barn. Being the hero that you are, you swiftly killed that creature and calmed my hysteria so I could get back to the house. I remember you letting us ride in the scoop of the tractor while we looked for baby calves in the pasture, even though I'm sure you could have probably done it much quicker without us. I remember you smoking the occasional cigar and letting us kids blow out the match, an event we would fight over like it was some major accomplishment. I remember making gravy thickening for the coleslaw dressing because it was the only recipe I could recall and how you ate it anyway, telling me it wasn't that bad. I remember helping to innoculate the soy beans before you planted them, sitting in the truck waiting for you to come back around the field and fill up the planter. I remember you coming in after dark, covered in dirt, eating the dinner we saved for you. I remember seeing you reading your Bible every night before you went to bed and watching you stand at the communion table at church and pray.
Although I don't remember ever being awake for it, I am told that you came in every morning before milking to check on us and cover us up. Although I rarely ever spoke with you on the phone after I went to college, I am told that it was you who insisted Mom call to see how I was doing. These things are so indicitive of who you are--always in the background, working hard, loving deeply but never loudly, the personification of quiet strength.
You have taught me the proper work ethic--always give 110% without asking for recognition. You have taught me that relying on God for our every need is not an option, it is a way of life. You have taught me that to love the Lord and live for Him does not always have to be an emotionally charged response. It can be a steady, humble, faithful walk that never waivers even during times of difficulty. I would not be the woman I am today were it not for your daily example of Jesus inspired meekness.
I know there is a great possibility we will be separated physically some time in the future but I know that should you go to Heaven before me, you will save me a place at the feet of Jesus where together we can spend eternity praising Him. I love you Daddy. You are my hero.
Wednesday, June 15, 2011
Tuesday, June 7, 2011
Proud to be in the Midwest
Unless you have been living in hole somewhere for the last month, you are aware of the massively destructive weather we've been having here in the Midwest lately. Kansas, Oklahoma, Arkansas and Missouri have been hammered with storms that have flooded and/or destroyed thousands of homes. But we Midwesterners have a curious way of dealing with such tragic events. Let me try to explain, even though words really can't do this topic justice.
Since Joplin is geographically close to me, I have had the opportunity to be personally involved in the cleanup after an EF5 tornado left an 8 mile path of rubble in its wake. This particular tornado was unique in that not only was the funnel itself spinning but there were multiple vortexes inside it spinning also. Add to that a relatively slow speed of 30 mph and you have the effect of a garbage disposal, chewing up everything for a good 45 seconds before moving on. Not a leaf left on the trees, some houses literally reduced to splinters, cars crushed and mangled, concrete walls tossed around like styrofoam. And all of this is as far as you can see. Pictures just cannot capture the pit-of-your-stomach feeling you get when you are standing in what used to be someone's home, sifting through debris in a desparate attempt to find something, anything that homeowner could salvage of their previous life. Then after working for hours in the heat and humidity, you look around and realize that what you accomplished was only a thimbleful of what still needed to be done.
As heart wrenching as all of this was, though, the curious thing was the atmosphere you encountered no matter where you went or who you spoke to. There were people EVERYWHERE; cleaning up, handing out food, offering water, ice, Gatorade, helping people fill out forms, giving free Tetnus shots, unloading truckloads of donations. There was the sound of chain saws, dump trucks, cranes, and surprisingly, laughter. You saw people of all ages, nationalities, and socio-economic levels working together for one goal--to bring hope to someone who had just survived a horrendous experience.
Hope was our primary job. Hope that things can be replaced. Hope that someday things would get back to normal, or at least something close to it. Hope that there would be people to help and we wouldn't stop coming until we were no longer needed. Hope that they were not alone in this tragedy and others were feeling their pain.
This is the mindset of people in the Midwest. Maybe I'm prejudice because I live here but I can't imagine a better place to call home. And the response of the people putting hands and feet to their faith, digging in and giving of their time, money, and resources has to be the closest thing to heaven I've seen in a long time. But probably the most positive thing that can come from these terrible tragedies is that the world is watching. Others are seeing first hand who we are as Christians and what that looks like put into action. A hundred sermons preached by the best pastors in the country could not speak as effectively as what has been witnessed on the now unidentifiable streets of several Midwestern towns. I can say without hesitation that I am proud to be from the Midwest!
Since Joplin is geographically close to me, I have had the opportunity to be personally involved in the cleanup after an EF5 tornado left an 8 mile path of rubble in its wake. This particular tornado was unique in that not only was the funnel itself spinning but there were multiple vortexes inside it spinning also. Add to that a relatively slow speed of 30 mph and you have the effect of a garbage disposal, chewing up everything for a good 45 seconds before moving on. Not a leaf left on the trees, some houses literally reduced to splinters, cars crushed and mangled, concrete walls tossed around like styrofoam. And all of this is as far as you can see. Pictures just cannot capture the pit-of-your-stomach feeling you get when you are standing in what used to be someone's home, sifting through debris in a desparate attempt to find something, anything that homeowner could salvage of their previous life. Then after working for hours in the heat and humidity, you look around and realize that what you accomplished was only a thimbleful of what still needed to be done.
As heart wrenching as all of this was, though, the curious thing was the atmosphere you encountered no matter where you went or who you spoke to. There were people EVERYWHERE; cleaning up, handing out food, offering water, ice, Gatorade, helping people fill out forms, giving free Tetnus shots, unloading truckloads of donations. There was the sound of chain saws, dump trucks, cranes, and surprisingly, laughter. You saw people of all ages, nationalities, and socio-economic levels working together for one goal--to bring hope to someone who had just survived a horrendous experience.
Hope was our primary job. Hope that things can be replaced. Hope that someday things would get back to normal, or at least something close to it. Hope that there would be people to help and we wouldn't stop coming until we were no longer needed. Hope that they were not alone in this tragedy and others were feeling their pain.
This is the mindset of people in the Midwest. Maybe I'm prejudice because I live here but I can't imagine a better place to call home. And the response of the people putting hands and feet to their faith, digging in and giving of their time, money, and resources has to be the closest thing to heaven I've seen in a long time. But probably the most positive thing that can come from these terrible tragedies is that the world is watching. Others are seeing first hand who we are as Christians and what that looks like put into action. A hundred sermons preached by the best pastors in the country could not speak as effectively as what has been witnessed on the now unidentifiable streets of several Midwestern towns. I can say without hesitation that I am proud to be from the Midwest!
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